Chapter 479
"It doesn't matter, let's not discuss this matter for now. It's still too early to talk about this now."
As someone who has been there, Lin Youjuan also had the same thoughts as Meng Chuyuan when she was young, but when she got married, the rules and regulations she had set up were gone.
Most young people nowadays are afraid of getting married and having children. Lin Youjuan feels that the two of them have at least taken a big step. As a mother, she is very happy to see them get married.
Hearing the hope in Lin Youjuan's words, Meng Chuyuan felt that there was no need for Lu Qingye to hide it for her, and she had never had any plans for childbirth. She didn't want the elders in the family to be anxious and disappointed about this matter in the future. .
"Mom, I'll tell you the truth." Meng Chuyuan looked calm and explained to Lin Youjuan unhurriedly: "My father has congenital deaf-mute disease, so I am likely to carry the recessive gene, so I have to consider the future health problems of my child. , I decided not to give birth."
"This..." Lin Youjuan seemed to be surprised. She didn't expect this reason at all. She was stunned for a moment, and then focused on Meng Chuyuan, "Why didn't you tell me earlier... Are you okay? Are you okay? Are you uncomfortable? Will there be tinnitus in your ears?"
Lu Qingye chose not to say anything at first, actually because he didn't want to cause panic. Now it was obvious from his mother's behavior.
Meng Chuyuan was confused by Lin Youjuan's sudden concern. He was obviously talking about serious matters, but why did Lin Youjuan change the topic to her.
She blinked in shock and responded softly: "I'm fine."
"It's okay." Lin Youjuan breathed a sigh of relief and murmured: "If this happened to me when I was a child, how miserable it would be. Fortunately, you didn't."
I noticed that Lin Youjuan's reaction was quite calm, and it seemed not as bad as Meng Chuyuan thought.
She knows that most elders in today's society value the inheritance of the family line, and will also consider the excellent genes of future generations... If the problem lies with the woman, this will be difficult to forgive.
However, when Lin Youjuan heard her explaining the matter, instead of changing her face, she actually became concerned about Meng Chuyuan.
Meng Chuyuan hesitated and said, "Mom, I don't have children, what do you think about this?"
Lin Youjuan nodded slightly, "Your concerns are right, it's better not to give birth. No, you must not give birth."
The world of children is inherently bright, colorful, and colorful. If they lose language expression and cannot hear the sounds of the world, they will not only face loneliness, but will also encounter many difficulties in the future.
Such children often need to be strong enough in their hearts to overcome the darkness that the world brings to them.
Now it seems that Meng Chuyuan not only had a hard life as a child, but also had to face the rumors around her. Thinking of this, Lin Youjuan felt even more sorry for her. “Will you blame me if you don’t have children in the future?”
“There’s no question of blame. It’s not as serious as you said. Given the conditions, we can’t just go our own way.”
To be honest, she still feels a little regretful in her heart...Who doesn't want to have children and grandchildren?
But it’s really hard to say for sure what the recessive gene is, and it’s very likely that it will be inherited.
The matter has come to this, and the best choice is to accept it.
She happened to have the same idea as Meng Chuyuan, and the most secure solution was already here.
Lin Youjuan sighed softly, then calmed down quickly, and comforted Meng Chuyuan:
"Don't worry, mom is not that stubborn. Don't feel any burden because of your dad's affairs. I never think that people with hidden diseases or physical defects should be inferior and not worthy of a normal life. and treatment.”
She believes that happiness, freedom and health are the most important things in life.
If even the most basic health cannot be guaranteed, then what is the use of this child?
Even if the financial conditions permit, Lin Youjuan does not agree with them taking risks. Although the parents may be tired, it is the children who really suffer.
“Thank you, Mom, I’m really happy that you understand.” Seeing Lin Youjuan’s attitude today, Meng Chuyuan finally realized that Lu Qingye’s easy-to-talk personality probably came from his mother.
It is easy for Lin Youjuan to look away. After all, she has experienced the risk of pregnancy and childbirth and knows the difficult process involved. "In fact, it is better not to give birth. Pregnancy is really harmful to the body."
“When I was young, I vowed not to have children in the future, but I was softened by my brother’s cubs, and then I ended up with three in my life…”
Talking about the past, Lin Youjuan seemed to suddenly become interested and said bluntly: "Not to mention, when his father and I first got together, we were very innocent. We had to do some psychological construction when holding hands. We went out together several times. It was fun, the atmosphere was obviously high, but he actually pretended to be reserved to me! I was so angry that I told him that it is okay for men to be infertile, but it is inevitable, these are two different things..."