Chapter 21 quarrel
"I owe you, will you pay back?" Qiao Dongliang sneered: "Who was the first to mention the second, want a son?"
At the beginning, the old Ding said that there was only one son in the family who was too lonely. He wanted to have a second child. Because of the conflict with family planning, Lao Ding said that he wanted to have another child. It is important to have children in the future.
Qiao Dongliang does not deny that he is a traditional Chinese man. He feels that he has a son to pass on to the family, but he does not insist.
Later, after listening to his wife's proposal, he also hearted or said that he was so confused that he wanted to have a son and lost his job and future.
What Joe Jinliang regrets is not the little daughter of Qiao Nan. The regret is that she should not sacrifice everything, just to have a son.
If this were not the case, the wife would not count all the things that did not give birth to her son and work to Nan Nan’s head.
"Old Ding, I don't say something about it. It doesn't mean I don't know. What is the situation of your Ding family? How did you grow up from a young age? You should be clear. Are you ready to let Nan Nan suffer from the pain you have ever tasted? In the end, Nan Nan owes you, or you have to owe Nan Nan."
Ding Jiayi has lived in a family of patriarchal women since she was a child. The reason why the old cadre of his father and his friend introduced Ding Jiayi to Qiao Dongliang was to find a way out for both of them.
Qiao Dongliang’s relatives and mothers were gone, and they almost broke their relatives.
People like this are hard to find a wife.
At that time, when he was in the army, Qiao Dongliang was only a platoon leader. He was only a little better than the ordinary soldiers. The future was not obvious, so he couldn’t get up to the target, and he couldn’t get it. If he couldn’t see Joe Dongliang .
In this way, the candidate for Qiao Dongliang's wife is more and more embarrassed, not easy to find.
As for Ding Jiayi, Ding’s living conditions are not bad, and there are three younger brothers under Ding Jiayi.
Ding's father and mother calculated that the three sons and daughter-in-law always had to do the wind and the scenery, the house had to have it, and the number of homes was not enough.
Therefore, Ding's father Ding mother hit her mind to the eldest daughter Ding Jiayi.
The three younger brothers, Ding Jiayi, have a big hand. Even so, Ding Jiayi’s status in Ding’s family is similar to that of Ding’s family. It has the most work and the least food.
Ding Jiayi is also clever. When she learns the knowledge of her brother, she always looks at her brother's book by taking care of her younger brother.
Sometimes, the younger brother who does not understand the problem, Ding Jiayi can teach the younger brother.
The same is true, Ding Jiayi squatted, and finished the primary school level on and off, at least the Chinese characters recognized a lot.
In the days of Ding Jiayi, she was considered a high level of culture.
When Ding Jiayi grew up as a big girl, Ding’s father did not think about keeping her eldest daughter at home, so that the money for her granddaughter’s work could be taken home.
Ding’s father’s thought is to find a “good family” and ask the other person to pay for the gift, and then quickly marry the eldest daughter.
At that time, Ding's father and mother not only found a good family, but even the lottery money was negotiated, saying that it was to marry a daughter. In fact, many people understand that it is simply selling their daughter.
The man who Ding Jiayi wants to marry grows short and does not say that forty is better than Ding’s father.
The problem is that after the red age, this man will be noisy, a pioneer, a good composition, and a little power in his hand.
Ding father is equal to finding an official son-in-law.
The man is old and looks ugly. The worst thing is that the man has a bad temper. No one can say clearly how the wife who died before.
When I heard that I was going to marry such a person, Ding Jiayi was so scared that she did not want to die.
This matter was passed from left to right, and passed to the ears of the old cadres. The old cadres summed up, and the sons of their old friends were soldiers in the army, but the old friends were framed, and the ingredients on the surface were not good. There were no other relatives at home. It is not easy to find a woman.
This girl, looks good, is a literate, that is, her family is not reliable, if the two are willing to do it.
The old cadres also didn't want to mess with the scores, and they explained each other's situation to each other, so that Joe Dongliang and Ding Jiayi could not consider it.
Ding Jiayi immediately listened to the situation of Joe Dongliang and immediately nodded.
At that time, no work was done as a soldier.
No elders at home? Yeah, she married, then she is the master of the house, she can still have two elders to manage, less to serve two people.
There are no brothers without brothers, as long as their men compete for more than anything else.
Ding Jiayi promised to be fast, but Jodong Liang was hesitant for a little, and finally agreed. The two married and became the family.
Relying on the relationship of Joe Dongliang, Ding Jiayi, with the help of the old cadres, not only got married and had a new life, but also had a good and decent new job. Life is a qualitative leap.
At that time, Ding Jiayi felt that marrying Joe Dongliang was the most correct decision she had made in her life.
Ding Jiazhong's thoughts on men and women are relatively heavy. Ding Jiayi has been a small nanny since he was a child. The three younger brothers are big one by one, and they are caught at home and abroad.
After having the eldest daughter, Ding Jiayi did not disappoint for a long time, she was very good to her eldest daughter, and a happy childhood that she wanted to miss herself was made up to her eldest daughter.
The same is the daughter, the turn of Qiao Nan when the treatment can be a heaven and earth.
"At the beginning, you said that you can't work in order to have a second child. You are the second child of my birth. For this, I left my favorite army. Lao Ding, for this child, my sacrifice is bigger than you. Nan Nan is not a son is a daughter, who can blame her, can you blame her? Do you have a bad stomach and face your daughter?!"
Speaking of the back, Joe Dongliang couldn't help but get angry.
With the eldest daughter, Qiao Dongliang couldn't easily understand, telling his son and daughter that he is as good, and he really likes the life in the army. He likes to be a soldier. He always said that he was born to be a soldier.
Even in order to stay in the army, Joe Dongliang has already figured out how to train this daughter to be honest.
Not thinking about it, Qiao Dongliang rested his mind, Ding Jiayi began to make trouble and want to son.
"You blame me now?!" Ding Jiayi is like a hedgehog. She erects the bristles on her body: "Who said that my son and daughter are just as good, and I don’t blame me for letting you cut off your son." Account. Old Joe, you are too backward!"
Ding Jiayi's most unpleasant thing is that her stomach is not arrogant, because she has two daughters, and she has lost both of her work.
For this matter, Dingmu once came to look for this far-married daughter, holding her grandson to ridicule Ding Jiayi's conscience, so God opened her eyes and let her not have a son.